Tantric Touch is a holistic approach to healing sexual trauma and traumatic sexual conditioning.

Through Tantric Touch you will be empowered with the tools that will allow you to release shame, guilt and self judgment that arises in your Sex and sexuality.

With Tantric Touch you will reconnect with your body, and deepen your relationship to pleasure, allowing you to connect with yourself and those with whom you choose to share your sexual energy.

Tantra is an ancient philosophy that takes many forms and is a path to self love and self acceptance. Tantra, simply is a way of facing our truest self.

Creating safety in Tantric Touch

In order to create a sense of safety, every session begins with a conversation around three key questions:

1. What are my boundaries for this session?

Understanding and communicating your limits, what do I NOT want to happen during the session. This can relate to topics that are off limits, body parts you don’t want touched or penetrated, or particular modalities you’d prefer not to engage in.

Boundaries serve two purposes, the first to create a sense of safety, not only in the present but also in the sense of returning. The second purpose of the boundary is to create space between you and everyone else, when you have this space from others you can think more clearly and feel into your desires, knowing that they are genuinely your own and not mixed up in the desire to please others (people pleasing)

2. What are my desires for this session?

Having established boundaries for safety and separation, desires are an opportunity for you to explore what you DO want to experience in the session. Again, this can be the way you like to be touched, the places that feel good to you, what would you like to process or unpack. Desires are external needs being met in a conscious way.

3. What are my intentions for this session?

An intention is the deeper meaning that goes beyond desire. If your desire is to be touched, you may ask yourself what is the touch doing for me?A feeling of calm, a sense of ease, connection. Releasing trauma, expanding my capacity for pleasure.

Are you struggling with…

  • Erectile dysfunction 

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Body Shame

  • Low libido/Sex drive

  • Performance anxiety

  • Disconnected from your body

  • Painful Intercourse

  • Difficulty orgasming

  • Feeling Stuck

  • Sexual Abuse

  • Shame around your sexuality

Are you struggling with…

  • Erectile dysfunction 

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Body Shame

  • Low libido/Sex drive

  • Performance anxiety

  • Disconnected from your body

  • Painful Intercourse

  • Difficulty orgasming

  • Feeling Stuck

  • Sexual Abuse

  • Shame around your sexuality

Break free of conditioning by connecting to your body, learning to…

  • Set and communicate your boundaries.
  • Discovery and share your desires free of shame with a partner/lover(s)
  • Stop defaulting to submissive and performative roles.
  • Consciously choose your your roles.
  • Create a more fulfilling and pleasurable sexual life with yourself and other(s)

As you begin to create, heal and expand your relationship to your Sensual Body you may be able to experience one or more of the following, in solo practice, guided in session and/or with a partner(s):

  • Breakthrough orgasm (or first orgasm)
  • Delay, expand & multiply your orgasms
  • Increased levels of intimacy, connection, & Self Love

Lingam Massage:
The Lingam or “wand of light” is a Sanskrit word that refers to the Penis.

While the Lingam massage draws focus to the genitalia it is a full body experience, cultivating sexual energy through touch and moving that energy through the body to heal trauma, reset the nervous system and engage more deeply with our pleasure.

Sacred Spot Massage:
The male G-spot or prostate is located in the anus, the sacred spot massage can be an incredibly pleasurable and expansive experience, for healing trauma, releasing shame and resetting the nervous system.

Sensual Bodywork:
A combination of deep tissue, trigger point release & a sensual Lingam massage. This treatment is designed to release stress, manage pain and reset the nervous system. Sensual Bodywork is available as a once off or recurring treatment, as a stand alone or as part of a deeper therapeutic process.

Self Pleasure Practice:
As part of a deeper process you may be invited to create a self pleasure practice that focuses on the journey of pleasure rather than the destination of orgasm, shifting the way you think about masterbation from simply mechanical to an act of self love.

Yoni Massage:
The Yoni or “source” is a Sanskrit word that refers to the vagina.

While the Yoni massage draws focus to the genitalia it is a full body experience, cultivating sexual energy through touch and moving that energy through the body to heal trauma, reset the nervous system and engage more deeply with our pleasure.

Sensual Bodywork:
A combination of deep tissue, trigger point release & a sensual Yoni massage. This treatment is designed to release stress, manage pain and reset the nervous system. Sensual Bodywork is available as a once off or recurring treatment, as a stand alone or as part of a deeper therapeutic process.

Self Pleasure Practice:
As part of a deeper process you may be invited to create a self pleasure practice that focuses on the journey of pleasure rather than the destination of orgasm, shifting the way you think about masterbation from simply mechanical to an act of self love.

De-armouring Process:
Vaginismus, a term many of you will be familiar with refers to the women’s body’s reaction to the fear of vaginal penetration by tightening the muscles of the vagina. I despise this term, as it medicalises a natural defence mechanism and disempowers women to heal. In the de-armouring process you will learn to approach this issue, by first acknowledging the reason it is there, to protect you. De-armouring is a process that includes talk therapy, breathwork and Tantric Touch, and is not suitable for once off experiences, but rather a process that allows you to build trust with both yourself and body as well as with me as a therapist.

In line with my promise to meet you where you are at, Tantric Touch may be experienced as a once off treatment, or as part of an overall therapeutic process. The true magic of Tantric Touch is in the full process, beginning with talk therapy and breathwork.

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